There are lots of weird or even dangerous folks out there. Don't rush into meet and make sure everyone is comfortable before diving in. It's well worth the effort! Good luck
It's fun when it goes well, as other folks say, don't rush, make initial contact in places that are comfortable for you. Set your ground rules, like being respectful and have fun.
I agree with everyone who says take your time and don't rush. A good way to get to know each other is at a party or social gathering where both parties feel comfortable
What we can say is take time and DON'T RUSH, you may feel eager and horny byt remember what fantasies you have in head or talk about is far different and real in reality . Don't rush !!Go slow. If a situation doesn't feel right LEAVE. Most people will tell you advice geared towards towards their own benefit to get you in bed ? Lots of fake, dangerous, liars , blackmaleers, etc. People who will secretly video you , blackmale you into stuff, people with diseases, people who use escorts and say is theirs wife, violent pushy people who who feel because they chat with you or meet them for drinks you obligated to fuck them. Just go slow. Inbox us a number we all can chat. Be safe.
Just know what and who you dealing with. If they seem to hurry and asking for face photos just be careful. It is easier to be safe and send nudes and sex pics with NO face and it will be safe . The min they asking for face photos with out established getting some common ground then be careful
Knocking on wood that this doesn't happen, but how can you tell? We've only ever met real people and not been catfished; even with all you've posted about pictures and rushing.
As I reminded you, be careful it have people who is fantasy people, picture collectors, jerk off men, Catfishing and fakes who don't intend to do anything and not very serious. That all on this site
My girl and I are trying g to get into it but no one here is patient, everyone in hurry to get the fuck. So this in my opinion is not the place if you trying to go slow.